I forgive doesn’t mean I submit. Forgiveness means understanding the reasons why someone would choose to hurt others. It means letting go of resentment. Forgiveness is not a weakness, it is a sharp weapon, authenticity, and willingness to see through your own pain into someone else’s pain. It is acceptance of what happened, reality.
Lots of people don’t forgive celebrities, politicians, and artists these days. They cannot comprehend that they are not responsible for their lives. If something bad happens we like to point at authorities, and not at the fact that we did not create choices for ourselves. There will always be people, circumstances, and conditions which hurt us because life is about figuring out what choices you will make according to the hurt that you received. Will you choose to heal, and benefit or will you succumb to fear, separation and submission?
There is always a choice, choices are everywhere, as long as you are alive you have a choice. There is no such state in which you would not be alive. Death the way most people comprehend doesn’t exist, you cannot experience non-experience because it is not an experience. You either choose life now or you choose life in your next life. You won’t ever evaporate from existence, eventually you will be brave, and eventually you will choose to be authentic with your own personal truth.
Eventually you will learn to forgive without submitting. You will not play power games, and imagine stealing energies from someone. Eventually you will realise that hurting someone else is like hurting yourself, that the only way to authenticity is to let everybody heal, that the energy someone stole from you wasn’t the energy you needed in the first place.
Everything grows, and nourishes the moment it gets accepted for what it is, and for what it is not. Let’s return to the soil, return to the earth, to mother nature, then finally let’s save the Earth!
Before forgiving someone it is important to feel your feelings 🌱 What will you choose?
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