Selflessness is not an effective method to communicate any message or have any relationship with anyone. Self-sacrifice and codependency are selfless behaviours. People like to make fun of people who explore, prioritise themselves as narcissists while narcissists are the ones who live as selfless as they can.

Selfless = selfish.

Codependency = narcissism.

Without knowing yourself you will never learn to know others, you will never meet anyone on their level, you will never heal your family line, and be forever a victim to your circumstances.

There are a lot of people who say they are prioritising themselves while doing selfish behaviours like eating a carnivore diet which complicates matters. These people only tell you that they prioritise themselves, but they don’t know what actual self-prioritisation means.

If you are alive then you try to exist, and to exist you try to feel better. This is how every being operates, but we develop terrible strategies which confuse us, and lead us to believe that eliminating another creature will somehow ensure our own existence. Nobody is selfless unless they have developed these horrible adaptations, and misunderstandings.

Our society is full of misconceptions, and mistakes around psychology. It is not hard to tell that most of humanity doesn’t understand itself, once you understand yourself this becomes more, and more of an understatement.